Anonymous said: My two cents on the dating site thing: you're a jerk for copy-pasting and not reading people's profiles. You waste people's time. Stop that shit.
Lol how is it a waste of time? If I want to get to know a person, there’s no difference with starting off with a “Hey”, a long personalized message, and a copy pasted message. Either way, if the two people are compatible, they’re going to end up talking. I’ve met many people using a copy pasted message and I’m great friends with them now. They don’t see me as jerks. Because they actual took the time to know me!
Anonymous said: There is a lot wrong with that post but I can't believe she thought it was okay to say she'd find out his personal info. It's one thing to run a blog like this to make fun of conversations like that but does she even realize she's crossed all sorts of lines?
Exactly my thought, which is why I prefaced my comment by saying they were both assholes. Her robot-esque reply was funny but they both had an attitude problem throughout the conversation, and the direction she took it in was seriously uncalled for.
Ladies, I know that sometimes we’re just having an awful day and we take it out on the jerks who message us, or we’re just sick of shitty replies and don’t even want to bother being civil, but it’s not that hard to stop replying after you’ve made your point. Go ahead and be a bitch if you have to but know when to stop and hit the block button.
Men, learn to understand when you’ve reached the point of no return, don’t try to convince a woman you’re actually a really nice guy but you just came off wrong even if it’s the truth, just say “Sorry for bothering you” and just bounce out of that conversation, and hit the block button if you have to.
Stop being jerks for no real reason and just use the block button more often.
Well my problem is that when someone attacks my person, it’s not that I have to prove I’m a good guy, it’s that I have to fight back for myself. I’m not just going to sit there and take mental abuse from someone I don’t even know. And it’s not OK for them to think they can get away with it.
Sure we had attitudes and were asshole. But I only ever called her judgmental. She called me shallow, an asshole, and other things for no reason. All I was doing was explaining my actions. If that makes me stupid, maybe I should just let more people walk all over me.
But isn’t a big part of tumblr about being AGAINST cyber bullying? Haha